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Honorifics
Honorifics are how you refer to your Dom and how you prefer your Dom refer to you.

How do you prefer to refer to your Dom?
(Check all that apply)

Any other honorifics you would prefer to call your Dom?

How would you prefer your Dom refer to you?
(Check all that apply)

Any other honorifics you would like thrown in the mix?

Verbalization
Verbalization refers to how much you like to talk, or be talked to, in the bedroom.

Verbalization

I Love It! I'm fine with it Not really my thing Let's pretend we're in a library

Verbalization from my Dom

I need to hear you! I'm fine if you talk Shhh, no talking in the library

Verbalization from you

You'll hear from me, trust me I might talk as I get more comfortable I prefer to be spoken to I want my Dom to pull it out of me. Make me talk Daddy!

Temperature

The dirtier the better, let's get expressive I'm fine with a little dirty talk My Pastor may be watching, keep it clean

Any specific words that are a mood killer for you and you'd like to strike from being used?

Any specific words that really turn you on?

Praise
praise is Dom-to-sub specific. It refers to your desire to be praised in the bedroom by your Dom. some examples are "you're such a good girl", "i'm so proud of you", "Make me proud of you", "be a good girl and cum for me", etc.

Praise

God yes, praise me Daddy A little praise goes a long way Haven't experienced it but it sounds hot Not really my thing, but I'm fine with it Praise makes me uncomfortable, please don't

Lingerie
(Check all that apply)

Love wearing sexy Lingerie Can we leave it on while we fuck, please? it just ends up on the floor, so who cares i'm not comfortable in Lingerie I want Daddy to surprise me with the lingerie he wants to see me in Can we go shopping together, Daddy?

Subspace
Subspace is a world where you truly become a completely submissive to your Dom. While you are still in full control, you are willingly giving up short-term control of the things around you. this may include being made to ask permission before you're allowed to cum, being made to count out the number of spankings you've received, being made to keep track of the number of orgasms you've had, or being made to beg for your Dom to do something to you.

Subspace

I am intensely interested in exploring this, albeit a bit scared haven't thought about it before now, but it sounds intriguing I'd like to discuss and maybe explore certain portions of this i like the Dom/sub dynamic, but not to this level

Impact Play
Impact play can take on various forms and with varying degrees of intensity

Spanking: Ass

Spanking Pressure

Spanking: vagina
(This is commonly known as clit spankings, used during heightened arousal)

Spanking Pressure

I love the sting when i'm about to cum Mild Soft Let my reactions & words be your guide

Slapping: Inner Thigh

Pressure

Slapping: Breasts

Pressure

Slapping: Face

Pressure

Anything you'd like to add regarding your desires around impact play

Choking & Breath play
Choking and Breath Play often get lumped into one, which is incorrect.

Choking is a hand around the neck as an assertion of Dominance. While in more aggressive scenes it may restrict blood flow to the brain 9which causes a euphoric feeling), It doesn't restrict your airway.

Breath Play, as the name would indicate, restricts airflow. it is often used as another method to cause a euphoric feeling and also a desire to be truly submissive.

Choking

Pressure

Own Me! Keep me in my place Medium Just let me know you're in charge

Breath Play

Pressure

Take me to outerspace Make me dizzy Let me know it's happening Just a little

Anything you'd like to add regarding your desires around Choking and Breath Play?

Hair Pulling

Pressure

Nipple Play
Nipple Play can take on various forms with varying degrees of intensity

Nipple Play: Biting

Pressure

Yes Daddy, own them! A little aggressive is okay please be gentle with the sisters Let my reactions & words be your guide

Nipple Play: Pinching

Pressure

I need you to pinch them hard! A little aggressive is okay please be gentle with the sisters Let my reactions & words be your guide

Nipple Play: Clamps

Scratching: Giving

I'll make you look like you've been to war i tend to scratch a little when i get excited maybe, but it's not intentional scratching ain't my bag

Scratching: Receiving

It tells me I'm doing something right, dig in Daddy! I'm fine with it but don't require it Gently please, leave no trace Please don't

Restraints
Restraints can cover a lot of territory, so further conversation may be needed, but here are some high-level topics.

Restraints: Arms

Tie me down and make me your playground Temporary is fun, but I need to be able to touch you eventually New to me, but I'm interested in experimenting Not really that interested Hard Limit

Restraints: Legs

Spread me, expose me, immobilize me! I like it, but could live without it New to me, but I'm interested in experimenting Not really that interested Hard Limit

Restraints: Whole Body

Lock me down, own me, make me cum hard! I like it, but could live without it New to me, but I'm interested in experimenting Not really that interested Hard Limit

Oral Sex
Oral pleasure can extend beyond the traditional, but it's also important to understand how you enjoy oral pleasure

Oral Sex: Giving

Pressure
(Check all that apply)

Grab my head and fuck my throat A little gentle coaxing is fine Hands off: I know what i'm doing! Depends on the mood, but I'm open to all checked above

Oral Sex: Receiving

Pressure
(Check all that apply)

Dive in, I need it rough and aggressive Slow & Smooth is my speed gentle, it's a kitty not a tiger Depends on the mood, but I'm open to all checked above

Oral Sex: Whole body, giving

If you're the ocean then call me Jacques Cousteau I can get a little freaky with my tongue on occasion haven't really explored this, but i'm game i'll just stick to what i know, thanks.

Oral Sex: Whole body, receiving

I'm like the Oregon trail and your tongue is Lewis and Clark, explore me! It's fun, but not a hard need Good question, i'm sure there's nerve ending left unlicked and i'm game to finding them. Not really my jam

Toys
How do you feel about AI (Artificial Insertion)?

Toys: Vibrators, external

A vibrator on my clit with you inside me and we might make the local news I am definitely a fan of the vibe i'd rather have the real thing New to me, but i'm game to explore just not my gig

Toys: Vibrators, Internal

Turn it to stun and let's go! I like it during foreplay I like it intermittently during sex I like it between sessions to keep me warmed up Meh, it's okay but I'd rather have the real thing New to me, but open to exploring Not really my thing

Toys: Dildos

Love this and love when you use them on me They're fine in a pinch, but I'd rather have the real thing They reach spots no man can Wait, they reach spots no man can? We need to explore that! Not really my thing

Toys: Anal

Once you go back you never go... back. I'm in I'd be lying if i said I haven't secretly wanted to explore this I'm open to it, but i'm also very nervous nope, not my jam Hard Limit

Anal Play
Anal Play extends far beyond just having anal sex

Anal Play
(Check all that apply)

i like to have my ass played with, but it's a no to penetration i like the idea of having my ass played with and want to explore it i love anal sex, own it! i like the idea of anal sex and want to cautiously explore it not really that interesting to me Hard Limit!

Intercourse
Such a wide, diverse topic, but let's cover the basics

Favorite Positions
(Check all that apply)

Put me on my back, pin my knees to my shoulders, look into my eyes and fuck me Get me up on all fours and take me from behind Can I be on top, Daddy? Why not explore all the Kama Sutra positions?

Intensity
(Check all that apply)

I need you to fuck me so hard I forget my name Long, gentle strokes. Let me enjoy it soft, romantic, and gentle is the speed for me there's a time and place for everything, let's mix it up.

Sensory & Perception Play
Sensory & perception play is a unique world where you, the submissive, have some of your senses eliminated so that others may be heightened. This may be something like being blindfolded and made to wear headphones with music playing so you don't know what is coming next, cannot prepare for it, and therefore have to experience it in real time.

Sensory & Perception Play